Planning ahead will enable you and your family to take advantage of the many different services that exist to help you prepare for the end of your life. This planning will make it easier for your family to put things into place knowing they are acting according to your wishes.
Planning and making decisions about the end of your life can be a positive experience. It is a good opportunity to reflect on the things that are important to you, and to make arrangements that suit you.
Learn more about your condition
To put good plans in place, you will need to learn more about your condition and understand what you are facing. Your doctor will work with you to help you understand how your condition will progress. Don’t be afraid to ask questions – it’s important to learn as much as you can.
Some of the types of questions that you might ask your doctor include:
- If I am thinking about being cared for at home, what medications or treatment and equipment will be available to me?
- How will this medication and treatment be administered?
- What would this mean for my carer? Knowing what you and your carers should expect will help you to plan for your situation.
Make an advance care plan
Advance care planning is the process of making your care and medical treatment preferences known to your loved ones in the event that you cannot make these decisions yourself.
By putting a plan together, your family will know in advance about the level of healthcare and quality of life you would want if, because of your illness or medical condition, you are unable to participate in the discussions and make the decision for yourself.
You can talk with those close to you, your family, your doctor and treating team to make sure they are aware of what is important to you.
Although these plans should be respected by your family and medical team, advance care plans
can be overridden by a medical enduring power of attorney.
In some instances, you may want to complete a ‘refusal of treatment certificate’ if you wish to refuse a treatment related to a specific illness you may have. Your doctor needs to assist you to complete this form. More information is available from the Office of the Public
Enduring power of attorney
Another option you have is to appoint another person to make decisions for you. This is done using a legal document called an ‘enduring power of attorney’, which means a person can make decisions when you are unable to participate in the decision-making.
There are different kinds of enduring powers of attorney:
- medical enduring power of attorney – can manage your medical needs
- financial enduring power of attorney – can manage your finances
- enduring power of guardianship – can make personal and lifestyle decisions such as accommodation and healthcare decisions and whether to consent to medical treatment.
Once appointed, each of these people can make decisions on your behalf. The Office of the Public Advocate outlines the roles of each of the powers of and provides support for them in their role.
Think about who you want to take on these responsibilities and then approach them to have the conversation. You will be trusting this person with your life and finances, so they should be someone you know very well and who you can speak to about sensitive issues. They should understand what is important to you, and be able to act on your wishes – even when faced with opposition from doctors or other family members.
After you have made your decision, there are necessary legal steps you will have to follow to appoint your power of attorney. Find out more by downloading information sheets and the legal forms from .
When you’re coming to the end of your life, it’s a good idea to put your finances in order.
If you have appointed a financial enduring power of attorney, you can work with them to ensure that your wishes are known and documented.
Making sure that your will is up-to-date and understanding what will happen to your financial accounts will make it easier for those managing your estate after your death. You may want to consider seeking professional financial advice to ensure that you and your family know how to access your superannuation and insurance.
Planning personal matters
There may be other personal matters you would like to put into place. You might like to visit a special place with friends, have particular requests for your funeral or organise other personal matters.
Regardless of your wishes, you may want to talk about these things with your family and friends. Together, you will be able to make them happen.
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